Relationship Survey.

Category: Dating and Relationships

Post 1 by Miss Gorgeous (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 13:28:25

Relationship Survey
Anyone, can fill this out if they want.

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
I'm single, but not looking or planning to go into another relationship for now.

2) Are you happy with who you are?
Yup, of course. I love me. Lots of laughs (I know I’m cute.)

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Just once, but that was only one time. I usually spend some time with the person and get to know them first.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, so many times that's why i'll be single for now. I’m tired of broken promises.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
NO, but if your partner is cheating on you, then, give it back to him or better yet just break up with the person. Sometimes there are open relationships to where both parties have the right to go out with anyone they want. It all depends, but i think its still wrong to cheat. I never cheated before on anyone, but someone from my past relationship have cheated on me with another girl, so I know how it feels to be cheated.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Nope, trusting someone is no joke, so, i would say no.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, it was with one of my x boyfriend.

8) Do you want children? someday

9) How many? 2

10) Would you consider adoption?
It depends.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be confident enough to approach me and be straightforward with it. Start with friendship, and we’ll go from there.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Most of the guys that I’ve talked with said that I was hard to get, yeah, I do enjoy playing hard to get, but there are some circumstances that stand out. If I strongly feel something for the person, I make it a little easier for him and I’ll be honest to him about it.

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
I'm usually the serious type. I only date people that I like. I don't go with trial or error. I don’t like wasting time with people I’m not interested with.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes, I felt it ones. I use to believe at love at first sight, but that was before. Now, I don’t anymore.

15) Are you romantic?
Yes and no. I can be romantic depends if I’m really in love with the person, but it takes awhile for me to open up and be comfortable with someone. Trust takes time.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, I don’t like changing people. Its not cool. First of all, if your dating or with someone right now. You got to accept the person no matter what. Attempting to change someone, only means that your not contented with who the person is, and it shows that your selfish and controlling because you want your ideals to show in the presence of this person that’s impossible because this person can’t always live up to your expectations that’s not a good foundation to start with.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
If ever, i would prefer it to be in a beautiful garden.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, he is a close friend. He gave me a reason to trust and hope again. This person means a lot to me. We just talked yesterday, I don’t want to let him know.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes, a year ago. its a sad feeling. I don't want to dwell into it. Thank God, I got over those feelings.

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, a lot of hearts. I feel bad though

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
It depends on the situation.

22)What would you say about your last ex?
He was nice the whole time. The whole thing was mutual between us. He always made me giggle to the max. it was really fun. Were still friends.

Post 2 by speedie (move over school!) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 14:03:55

Taken by a true blue Dub.

Am I Happy with myself. Yes I'm deadly.

Did I fall fast. No it takes time...The thing of it is, if their ok with the chair, I'm encouraged.

Have I ever had a broken heart. Yes but it wasn't by a woman.

Cheating is never ok.

I'd never take back a cheater. But, I'd want to know why they cheated.

Ive talked about marriage with my uncle Con who gave me grand advice

We don't want children we'er not at all fond of them

If someone liked me. They could offer to buy me a pint, or be impressed by my sharp County Kerry wit. smile

Playing hard to get. The chair was enough of a barrier for most people, without adding my stubborness in to the equation.smile

Playing the game. I chat up the women, but it's only craic, they can see the engagement ring clear enough so.

Love at 1st sight. Ahh no I don't I believe it's more lust than love.

Am I Romantic. Sure in a black metal biker sort of way.

Can I change someone. If you can't accept the feicker warts and all, then sure, leave them alone.

Get married anywhere. We'd get hitched in Ireland, on Inch beach, County Kerry it's deadly.

Feelings for someone. Matilda, and The Hell's Angel murdered on Sunday in england, I hope this won't esculate.

Wish I could have had someone. Yes but it was leading to disaster I'd lost the plot.

Have I ever had a broken heart. Yes a few and 1 still hurts like blazes.

Fight over my S.O. Right so, though I've a feeling, I'd not be alone on that 1.

Last ex. Cop on you sad feickin eejit.
We broke up over you being a sick redneck voyueur,
get over me will you.

Stevie

Post 3 by Liz (The Original) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 14:14:16

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing



Single.



2) Are you happy with who you are?



Yes, most definitely. Happiness with who you are is crucial in a relationship.



3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?



No, it takes awhile.



4) Have you ever had your heart broken?



Yes.



5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?



No, absolutely not. Honesty with me is a huge thing. If people break that, it's over: that's it, no ifs ands or buts.



6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?



No, I doubt it. The circumstances would have to be very "special" for me to even consider such a thing.



7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?



No, marriage scares me at the moment. I'm too young, and have too much ahead of me still yet to do and figure out.



8) Do you want children?



I'm not sure. Right now, if I had to answer the question, no.



9) How many?



See above.



10) Would you consider adoption?



Yes, if I did decide I wanted kids, I wouldn't mind adopting.



11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?



Let me know you like me. Don't try to skirt around it. Chances are, if you don't tell me, I won't know you like me, and if you like me and want to get to know me better, where would not telling me get you? Not too far, in all honesty... Most of all, though, take it slow--I don't like rushing things. My philosophy is: Friends first, relationship second.



12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?



I don't know. Sometimes, yeah, I guess I do. It's all in fun, though.



13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?



No, not at all. If you're serious about things, fine, but otherwise, don't bother.



14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?



I thought I did, but I don't know now. Maybe...



15) Are you romantic?



Yes, of course, though not overly so. I think that there is a time and place for everything. PDA isn't really my thing, but to each his/her own...



16) Do you believe that you can change someone?



No, the only person who can change someone is that person. I'm not here to change someone, I'm here to find someone as they are with whom I am compatible.



17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?



I'm not sure. The ceremony would probably be somewhere simple.



18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?



No.



19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't



No, not really.







20) Have you ever broken a heart?


Yes, I have. I felt like the worst person in the world because of it. We're still friends, though, even though sometimes I wonder how we could be after that fact.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Verbally, yes, physically, probably not.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
He was kind, caring, loving and really did mean well. Sometimes it hurts to think about how things ended up. Relationships that don't end on bad terms can sometimes be harder than those that do.

Post 4 by The Roman Battle Mask (Making great use of my Employer's time.) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 15:34:59

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
single
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Yes I am, I've reached the bitter cranky old man stage 50 years ahead of time. No point in putting off the inevitable.
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Depends on how good there wrestling takedowns are.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
It's hard to break something that doesn't exist.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
It's always ok to cheet as long as you don't get caught, because then it isn't cheeting if they don't know there being cheeted on.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Sure why not, if I have no hart to break then it can't hurt.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
No, haven't found a girl rich enough to put up with, then divorce her taking half her stuff.
8) Do you want children?
Only if I can give them back when the novelty wears off.
9) How many?
How long do I have to keep them?
10) Would you consider adoption?
Sure, I've always wanted to do that adopt a stretch of highway program.
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Lots of licker and then wake up in the same bed as them.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Well I'm not a fast runner so if you have vision I shouldn't be that hard to get. Also I don't run very quietly so once again most blind people should be able to get me.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
Depends on what game the girl likes, if it's halo or quake yes, if it's gittarre hero or final fanticy no.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
No, but love at first touch does.
15) Are you romantic?
Last time I checked getting chased out of the house with a baseball bat wasn't romantic so I'm probably not.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Depends on how many power tools and how much anestetic i have.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
The local bar, so I can drown my mistake away as soon as possible.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, Harp makes me feel like no one else can, mainly because he has the strongest grip I've ever found.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes, but onfortionately the grave was to hard to dig up so i never got them.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
I don't know, if they never talk to you again after they wake up next to you is that a bad sign?
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Only if it was a prise fight and the winner got a lot of mony.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
Which one was my last x, I should probably stop drinking so much 151.

Post 5 by Blondie McConfusion (Blah Blah Blah) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 15:59:09

Relationship Survey
Anyone, can fill this out if they want.

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
single

2) Are you happy with who you are?
for the most part yes.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
i have in the past.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
yes

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
no.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
no.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
not seriously

8) Do you want children?
don't know

9) How many?
don't know

10) Would you consider adoption?
if i want kids then yes

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
i'm blonde and a bit clueless sometimes. just being upfront but not in a creepy way is good. but taking the time to get to know me first is a great idea. not telling me the first time you talk to me or hear my voice that you want me cuz that's just superficial and um...

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
nope not into playing games

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
nope again don't play games

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
no

15) Are you romantic?
yes.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
nope learned that lesson already.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
the mountains would be cool. haven't really thought about it too much.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
yes

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
haven't we all?.

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
not on purpose

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
depends on what type of fighting we are talking about..

22)What would you say about your last ex?
that is info for a need to know basis. i learned a lot though.

Post 6 by DancingAfterDark (I just keep on posting!) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 16:58:29

Jared, I love you.

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single.

2) Are you happy with who you are?
Not especially, but it depends on the day. Sometimes I am.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Unfortunately, yes, very..

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, but the only time it really mattered it was my own fault, so.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No, but I'd be interested to talk to someone who does.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
No.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Not seriously.

8) Do you want children?
Never.

9) How many?
Zero.

10) Would you consider adoption?
If I wanted kids, yes.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
I usually don't have a clue unless I'm told, so ... just tell me?

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No, dating games are stupid and annoying.

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
See above.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Negative. Lust, of course, but not love.

15) Are you romantic?
Depends on the person and the situation. In general, not overly so, but I have my moments and I love hearing about other peoples' romances.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Maybe, but I wouldn't bother trying because I don't think it'd last if they didn't change for themselves..

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Weddings are overrated. I don't want a huge, extravagant, expensive thing made of it.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
I rarely want people I actually have a chance with, so yes.

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, biggest mistake I've ever made.

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Not quite sure what this question's asking, but if we're talking about bitch fights, no. If he's my significant other, I should be able to trust him and have no need of fighting someone over him.

22)What would you say about your last ex?
One of the most amazing people I've ever known. Shame we're no longer friends.

Post 7 by changedheart421 (I've now got the bronze prolific poster award! now going for the silver award!) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 17:38:48

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
I'm sadly taken but the person does not love me at all.

2) Are you happy with who you are?
Not at this time bbut should be soon.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Yes, I have but never will again.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
I have it broken everyday.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Hell To The NO

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Have but will not do it again.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes

8) Do you want children?
someday

9) How many?
Am Not Sure.

10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Make suggestions with invitations to hang out, little comments here and there, or just saying hey can I take you on a date. I love to date and personally would be happy if relationships stayed in that stage forever. This is because when you are getting to know someone they seem to do everything they can for you and to please you.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No.

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
I'm usually the serious type

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
No.

15) Are you romantic?
no I am not anymore.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
It would be in the mountains in the snow.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes, a year ago at FSU

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
No it is not worth it.

22)What would you say about your last ex?
She was cool but sort of ghetto.

Post 8 by Heavy Metal Girl 85 (Zone BBS is my Life) on Monday, 13-Aug-2007 22:07:49

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
I'm single, but if a relationship happens, so be it. I prefer to be friends with someone and see where it goes, rather then just jumping into things right away.
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Yes Definatley.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall for them fast?
Ok I'll be honest, yes I do, but I know I need to stop and think before I get hurt.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, so many times, but I'll not stop getting to know guys because of it. I just hope that some day, I'll find the right one .

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Definatley not.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I'd have to say probably not, but it all depends on how bad the situation was that they cheated on me. If I feel that the person deserves another chance, I'll give it to them in due time, not right away though, they would have to prove to me that they'd not cheat on me again.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, it was with one of my x boyfriends. It was my first, it's a very long story.

8) Do you want children? Yes Definatley

9) How many? 2

10) Would you consider adoption?
It depends.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be confident enough to approach me and be straightforward with it. Start with friendship, and we’ll go from there.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Depends on the situation, If I really like someone I'll tell them. But if I'm not sure about how I feel about a person, I'll wait and then tell them when I'm ready.

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
I'm Definatley the serious type. I only date people that I like. I don't go with trial or error. I don’t like wasting time with people I’m not interested
with.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
yeah I guess not sure, my heart has been screwed with so many times, I'm not sure if it is such a thing anymore.
15) Are you romantic?
Yes and no. I can be romantic depends if I’m really in love with the person, but it takes awhile for me to open up and be comfortable with someone. Trust
takes time.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, You can't change someone , you can only give thee advice to make themselves better, if they choose to take your advice, then it's up to them, noone and I mean noone can force anyone to take anyone's advice.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be? I've not given that much thought, that's a bit far away. have so much to concentrate on at the present.


18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?Yes.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
No, at least I dont' think. I've always been the one who ends up being hurt in every relationship.

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
It depends on the situation.

22)What would you say about your last ex? He was very caring and kind and a great person, he always helped me out when I needed it and still does, we're still friends actually,but, I still love/ care about him in some way, but due to a certain situation that I won't go into on here, we broke up. I just hope that someday, him and I can be as close as we use to be when we were dating. It feels as if I lost one of my best friends, and yes it is still hard to talk to him now, but I manage some how.

Post 9 by Daenerys Targaryen (Enjoying Life) on Tuesday, 14-Aug-2007 0:58:26

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Yes
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Yes
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Yes, if I really loved them, but they would have to prove to me that they wouldn't cheat on me again.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes
8) Do you want children?
Yes, maybe,but not right now.
9) How many?
Two, hopefully a girl and a boy or having twins would be cool too.
10) Would you consider adoption?
No
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Just tell me, but only if you really want to be with me and adventually want to have a serious relationship, if things worked out between us.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes
15) Are you romantic?
Yes
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, noone should ever try to change another person and should like them for who they are.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
It doesn't matter where we get married just that we love each other and want to be together.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, I do and have for a long time.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
No, if my partner really wants to be with me, I shouldn't have to fight anyone for them to stay with me and it would be their choice if they want to stay with me or be with someone else.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
He's a caring and outgoing person, who is not afraid to speak his mind about anything.
I really miss him a lot. I do still love him and if given the chance, I would want to be back with him. He always made me laugh and smile. He always told me it would be ok, when things got hard and believed in me, even when I thought I was stupid and not good enough at all. He made me feel happy, cared for, loved, and special. He doesn't even talk to me anymore. I wish we could at least be friends. I hated losing the person I truely loved, but most of all, I hated losing one of my best friends.

Post 10 by HauntedReverie (doing the bad mango) on Tuesday, 14-Aug-2007 4:33:04

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
happily taken
2) Are you happy with who you are?
To some degree
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
you can't know if he's "right" right off, can you? so, no.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
by a lover? not broken, no.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
hell no
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Hell no again. Trust isn't something you can break and regain.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
yes, frequently
8) Do you want children?
Yes, but not now
9) How many?
don't care. (not six, or fourteen)
10) Would you consider adoption?
only if I couldn't have children of my own
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
well, I don't much care, there's not much I'm going to do about it now. but I'd appreciate the gesture. lol.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Not really
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
attraction and romance yes, true lasting love? no.
15) Are you romantic?
very much so
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
With time and dedication, maybe, depends on the person. but don't feel like changing anyone at the moment.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Not in a church
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
well, if the happily taken answer to question one isn't answer enough.. yes!
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
not really
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
I'm not sure, maybe, but I try not to.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
in a heartbeat. he's mine and I love him, so go find your own.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
Posative things, but it's four in the morning, and I don't share inner secrets.

Post 11 by Chris N (I just keep on posting!) on Tuesday, 14-Aug-2007 10:31:11

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single.

2) Are you happy with who you are?
Mostly, yes.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I have in the past but I don't now.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Definitely not.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
No.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, at least in passing.

8) Do you want children?
Probably not.

9) How many?
0

10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Tell me. It makes things much easier for all involved.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No. Games do not make for great relationships.

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Anything is possible.

15) Are you romantic?
Less than some, more than others.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
I haven't given this much thought. Marriage is far off.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
No. I have to see the person, well, in person to get an idea of what they're really like. I'm selective.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes.

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, unfortunately.

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Doesn't this imply that one of the people isn't secure in the relationship?

22)What would you say about your last ex?
Things that I've already told her.

Post 12 by soaring eagle (flying high again!) on Tuesday, 14-Aug-2007 13:38:07

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single/ crushing it can happen!
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Most of the time. I would like to have more confidence in myself.
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Yes unfortunately.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes who hasn’t
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Hell no. Done it and had it done back to me, never again!
6. Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
No, I couldn’t forget it. Hell I can't stand a lie either.
7Have you talked about marriage with another person?
A while ago.
8) Do you want children?
Would like to but time has passed me by.
9) How many?
See above.
10) Would you consider adoption?

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Tell me that you have an interest and will go from there.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No, that is game playing.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No more one is all I could handle.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes I think it can happen, but then you need to explore each others likes and dislikes to see if it would work.
15) Are you romantic?
I sure am!! Girls are the most beautiful thing ever!
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
This is a tough one, it should be no, but may be something like smoking or drinking those could be possible changes. But I think you need to except the person as they are. and just to make it clear, I smoke and its a tough habit to give up.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
In Hawaii with all of my friends.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes twice at least .
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, to many. and not proud of it.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
If they were trying to pick her up and she said no yes. But if she wanted to go, well you can’t make some one stay where they don’t wish to be.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
She was kind and giving. Unfortunately we spent way to much time arguing with each other. We both admitted that.

Post 13 by SingerOfSongs (Heresy and apostasy is how progress is made.) on Wednesday, 15-Aug-2007 1:52:29

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Mostly, though there's room for improvement.
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
At times, though I've learned that if I feel like I'm falling fast to be careful.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yep.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No. Not at all. In fact to me that's the worst thing you can do in a relationship.
6. Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Maybe. But it'd take quite a bit to repair the relationship I think. It'd probably depend on the situation.
7Have you talked about marriage with another person?
A little.
8) Do you want children?
I think so. If I didn't I'd eventually have to work in a career with them.
9) How many?
Not sure.
10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes.
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Tell me outright. I'm well known for being oblivious when it comes to people liking me, and it's best to make it painfully obvious.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Not really.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Well I've heard of it happening, and met people that it's happened to (that it worked out), but it's never happened to me.
15) Are you romantic?
Situationally.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Not really. Though for relationships to work there must be comprimise at some point, trying to change anything major about someone is asking for trouble.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Honestly considering if I was getting married to someone, it'd be someone I love, I don't think I'd be all that picky.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Not really.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Who hasn't?
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
I'd say no, but then again never say never.

Post 14 by reclusive thinker (Veteran Zoner) on Wednesday, 15-Aug-2007 3:28:06

Like Chelsea, I have to say that I loved Jared's answers. Damn it, the guy grows on you. Like a fungus!

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single.
2) Are you happy with who you are?
That's baby talk, and I can't give a meaningful answer.
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I become ambivalent. Part of me falls fast, but the greater part of me insists on holding off until I really know her.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, a couple times. On one occasion, the girl not only broke my heart but swindled me out of thousands of dollars.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
That's hard to answer in the abstract, but it would be very unlikely.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, a few times.
8) Do you want children?
Never. I had a vasectomy many years ago so that anyone even thinking of getting involved with me would know that there was no possibility of this.
9) How many?
Not applicable.
10) Would you consider adoption?
If I wanted kids, I would consider adoption and might even prefer it, but I have always been sure that I didn't want children under any circumstances.
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be a good friend to me and express her feelings when the time is right.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
I think it does happen, but it only works out if you realize that where you think you've arrived is just a glimpse of where you might get to if you spend the rest of your lives really working at it.
15) Are you romantic?
I have always had a strong romantic side, but there are other aspects of my personality that keep it under control.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Realistically, despite all the glib talk about accepting each other as you are, there are going to be at least some superficial changes that both parties will have to make. However, as for changing things like personality traits, beliefs or values, there may be terrible methods of doing so, but I think it is morally reprehensible to want to make someone over, and the results are always grotesque at best.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
A small wedding, preferably a civil ceremony, preferably in our future home or the home of friends.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
No.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
More times than I can count.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Not intentionally, but yes.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
If my significant other were tempted by someone else, I would let her know that I don't share and that she could shape up or ship out.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
She was too good for this world, like an angel who had lost her way and ended up here. She died before we could marry, and I thought it would destroy me, but I wouldn't have missed the experience of knowing her for anything.

Post 15 by moyzey (i'm posting? huh?) on Sunday, 26-Aug-2007 15:36:23

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Happily taken
2) Are you happy with who you are?
I'm happy with who I am in terms of personality, not in terms of appearance
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I maybe don't fall fast, but I certainly fall a long way
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Not really.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Absolutely not. Never. How could anyone say yes to that question?
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
No. If they do it once, they'll just do it again
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
All the time
8) Do you want children?
Yes, and lots of them
9) How many?
As many as Cala will allow? *grins
10) Would you consider adoption?
Only if I couldn't have children of my own
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Coming straight out and telling me would be fine, but it doesn't matter, because I'm not

interested
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Not at all. What's the point.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Attraction yes, love no
15) Are you romantic?
Extremely.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Yes, but if you truely love someone, you wouldn't want to change them would you
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Anywhere but in a chirch
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
I reckon that'd be a yes? yes yes yes yes yes! and I love her
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Not really
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Not that I'm aware of
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
I would do anything over her. She's mine, go find your own.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
Nothing. It was at school and I didn't really care all that much

Post 16 by midnight sun (you can't catch me, i'm the palobread man) on Sunday, 26-Aug-2007 21:10:27

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
taken
2) Are you happy with who you are?
is this question asking if i'm happy the way i am or the person i'm with?
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
no not really
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
i think very few people haven't
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
hell no!
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
no at all. even if i would die losing him. my trust is really hard to get, and if you lose it you wont get it back even if my life depended on it. i can't forgive cheating
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
some times, talking about the future
8) Do you want children?
Yes
9) How many?
2, maybe 3
10) Would you consider adoption?
yes, why not
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
right now? i hardly see it happen, but come and tell me. i wont do anything about it because i wouldn't leave the person i'm with for no one else at all, but at least you can't say you didn't try. lol
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
i don't play. i've always been hard to get because trusting is really hard for me, but if i have feelings for this person and know that he can be trusted then i do all i can to make it worth the waiting
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
i don't play games when i'm dating. but wait, what game are you talking about? there are some good games two dating people can play together... lol
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
hmm, not sure about that. some feelings at first sight can be, and it can grow stronger and become complete true love with time and knowing the person, but true neverending love at the moment you meet someone... i don't know
15) Are you romantic?
never been much until now, but now not extremely, but i am
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
why should i? if i know someone well enough and i'm dating him it means he's alright the way he is for me. i can give advices that's all. and if one sees that something's starting to go wrong we talk about it and see how to solve it. but some people can change alot when they find someone who loves them and they are happy when they thought it couldn't happen. so in a way yes, we can change people just by loving them
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
not sure about that right now... maybe on a beach on a summer day? just like it was a normal day of vacation on the beach with friends and family and whoever else you want to be there. only difference a wedding's taking place. lol
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
definitely yes, but some of the questions before this one made it ovvious. lol
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
that happened some times but it was years ago
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
if the guys who came crying to me saying that their life was nothing without me and they couldn't make it after i left them when i caught them cheating or they liked to make me feel worthless crap if some things weren't exactly the way they wanted it to be counts, then yes i did
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
wouldn't there be something wrong if i needed to fight over him? if he really loves me and wants to be with me then he wont let other girls between us. and if he does then it means he wouldn't mind someone else trying to get him, so maybe he doesn't love me enough to make it worth fighting. if he wants to go i can't make him stay, he's not a toy we are fighting to get, he's a person who can think and make his choice, even if they can hurt like hell i would respect them. but still it depends, if someone keeps trying when he tells them off and they don't understand then yes, i would do something about it. i sure as hell don't share. lol
22)What would you say about your last ex?
that i'm happy i opened my eyes and got him out of my life before it was too late thank god. and i am happy with the person i am with now which he always hated so much, and he's not worth half what he is.

Post 17 by ocean blue (what you see! is what you get!) on Monday, 27-Aug-2007 5:08:14

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
I’m single
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Pretty much
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
It depends on the person. it’s only happened once before.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No! if it happens thatperson is going to wish they never met me
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Hell no!

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes I got pretty close to tieingthe the not
8) Do you want children? someday

9) How many?
I have know idea
10) Would you consider adoption?
Yes! smile
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
I just want them to come right out and let me know so I don’t have to try to guess if they like me or not. Because I don’t want to look like a dork thinking someone likes me like that if they didn’t
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Not really but sometimes I do it and I don’t even know it
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
Nope I’m a one man kind of person smile
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yes I do! smile

15) Are you romantic?
Yes! Very much so!
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No I don’t want to change anyone because then they wouldn’t be the same person I fell in love with

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
By the beach in Hawaii or a pretty garden
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
No
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
yes
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
If I did I didn’t know it
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Hell yes
22)What would you say about your last ex?
Well sense I have know idea if I should say something good or bad I’m not going to say anything.

Post 18 by The Fox (whatever rank you want to give me!) on Tuesday, 28-Aug-2007 1:36:09

Relationship Survey
Anyone can fill this out if they want.

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
I'm single, but Open to options if they come up and it feels right.
2) are you happy with whom you are?
Ya Sure, why not, I guess I'm an all right guy.
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I wouldn't say so, I normally find myself wanting to get to know the person first. I think this is the best way to go about things.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yarp, I freeken hate it! I can't stand people that think it is ok to do that to someone!
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Hell no, I do not stand for that kind of crap. It only shows a lack of trust and respect. Anyone that does this should be shot!
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Nope, trusting someone is no joke, so, I would say no.
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, I am glad nothing came of it! Dam that would have been a bad deal!
8) Do you want children?
Hell ya, Bring them on!
9) How many?
Do I have to give a number; I will take what I am given! I would feel blessed to have what I get!
10) Would you consider adoption?
It depends.
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be confident enough to approach me and be straightforward with it. We can talk it out. I am big for starting out as friends and then seeing where things go from there.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Not really, I am who I am and I hope that the girls like me for who I am. I don't see a point in playing hard to get. If I strongly feel something for the person, I make it a little more known to her.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
"The game"? What's that? I just spend my time with someone I feel is worth my time but I don't spend time on someone I don't feel I should spend my time with. What you see is what you get.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
I'm sure it does for some but for me, it does not. I think it is called "lust" I don't think you can know that you love someone if you don't really know them. Now you can like someone but that in no way is love.
15) Are you romantic?
I can be but I think the best response here is it depends. I have to be able to trust them and in my case trust is earned not just given. If I can't respect the person and I don't feel like she respects me then there is nothing.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Hell no, I feel strongly that there is only one person you have the power to change and that is yourself. After all you only have the power to change yourself and no one else. I think that to try and change someone is only showing that you can't accept the person for who they are and there for you shouldn't be with them in the first place. You should let it go and let the person be who they are as this is how you learn the must about them. I think that people that are not able to do this are the one's that are at the true disadvantage.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
On the land where I was razed as a kid or at my friend's lake because those are two places I feel I have had some of my happiest times in life.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, I do, I have talked with this person about it and we have a clear understanding about it. I think that is enough said there about that. This person knows who she is.......
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Ya sure, I think everyone has felt like that at one point in his or her life. I just dealt with it and that is that.
20) Have you ever broken a heart? I don't know. I might have but if so I don't know about it. I would like to think of it that I did what I think was the best thing at the time. I try to remain friends with people if I have to brake up with them as I see nothing wrong with being friends. I have only found one case where I was not able to do this and it is with my last X. In this case, I have enough reason that I don't think anyone would want to remain friends with her.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Hell ya, I won't let her down. I am all about kicking rocks with them to make it known that I am not going to deal with someone's crap!
22) What would you say about your last ex?
Do I really have to say anything about her? I think I can some it up in one word. "Bitch" I really don't to dig into it to much but I wouldn't wish her on anyone. I really hope she gets some help.

Post 19 by maroon five (I'm going for the prolific poster awards!) on Tuesday, 28-Aug-2007 9:17:27

1) single, taken or crushing.
single, but open to a relationship with the right guy.
2) are you happy with who you are?
yes I am, very happy.
3) when you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
yes I do. I shouldn't, but I do.
4) have you ever had your heart broken?
yes I have. way to many times, and I hate! it, and I hate how I feel when it happens.
5) do you believe that there are certain surcomstances where cheating is okay?
no. no-one deserves to be cheated on in any situation.
6) would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
no. If they kno that you'll take them back after they cheat on you, it'll give them the green light to just keep treating you like a piece of garbage and keep cheating on you.
7) have you talked about marriage with another person?
yes, but only in passing.
8) do you want children?
yes, with the right guy.
9) how many?
I don't kno.
10) would you consider adoption?
yes I would.
11) if someone liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
be honest with me, and tell me so we can talk it out.
12) do you enjoy playing hard to get?
no I don't. I've never had to, so wouldn't kno how. I've always been the chaser.
13) be honest. do you play the "game" when dating?
no, I don't believe in playing games with people's hearts.
14) do you believe love at first sight exists?
yes I do. it happened with me and my first crush-boyfriend.
15) are you romantic?
I don't kno. I've never been told if I am or not.
16) do you believe that you can change someone?
no I don't. you can only change yourself.
17) if you could get married anywhere, money no object, where would it be?
somewhere outdoors. maybe in a garden or by a quiet lake somewhere.
18) do you have feelings for someone right now?
yes I do. He knows who he is, and we've talked about it.
19) have you ever wished you could have someone, but couldn't?
yeah, who hasn't.
20) have you ever broken a heart.
I don't think so. If I have, I wasn't told about it.
21) would you ever fight someone over your significant other?
yes I would. I'd want him to kno that I care about him, and will always be their for him.
22) what would you say about your last ex?
he's a lying, cheating player who didn't care at all about me when he cheated on me with his ex. so in my book, that makes him a dog.

Post 20 by Stevo (The Established Ass) on Wednesday, 29-Aug-2007 12:59:51

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
taken

2) Are you happy with who you are?
hmmmm, most parts.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
nah, but then how does one know who is the "right person"?

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
yeah, and it'll no doubt happen again...

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
no, oppose it in all contexts

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
no. You can't repair broken trust that easily.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
No, and I don't intend to for some time to come

8) Do you want children?
Eventually, but that's a long way down the track

9) How many?
Two

10) Would you consider adoption?
Only if it was the only way

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Tell me straight and no bullshit

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Never tried it...

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No, and yes, that is honest. lol

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
perhaps, but it probably shouldn't, seeing as you can't know everything there is to know about a person by just looking at them or exchanging a few pleasantries.

15) Are you romantic?
When I want to be...

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
If you want to change someone then you shouldn't be dating them.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Blimey...I'll get back to ya... lol

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Oh yes...

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Haven't we all... not a nice feeling...

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Not that I'm aware of. What I don't know won't hurt me...

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Perhaps... it would depend what for...

22)What would you say about your last ex?
I don't think the sentence would contain any words that wouldn't be bleeped out... jk

Post 21 by sparkie (the hilljack) on Sunday, 02-Sep-2007 21:00:00

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
crushing.:)

2) Are you happy with who you are?
Absolutely! I love me and I love life! I may have my moments, but who doesn't?

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
No, you have to gain that trust and get to know them.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, but who hasn't?
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Absolutely not!
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
No!

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, with a girl from high school, then I found out she was nuts so we broke up.

8) Do you want children? not sure at this time.

9) How many? don't know.

10) Would you consider adoption?
maybe.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be confident enough to approach me and be straightforward with it. Start with friendship, and we’ll go from there.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
well it depends
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
no

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
it can but it's not the way to go
15) Are you romantic?
Yes and no. I can be romantic depends if I’m really in love with the person, but it takes awhile for me to open up and be comfortable with someone. Trust
takes time.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
Well you can but if you love them, why change them?
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
some place nice.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, I work with her and we've talked about it but she's just not ready.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
all the time.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
probably so.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
It depends on the situation.

22)What would you say about your last ex?
A major psyco. She got a hold of my credit card and ran up the charges, but we won't go into that. Let's just say I haven't talked to her in about a year.

Post 22 by alice (Generic Zoner) on Monday, 03-Sep-2007 1:20:31

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
taken

2) Are you happy with who you are?
indeed, for the sake of a few people. some change in a couple of deparments will do the world a good deal of good.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
only have once

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
yes

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
no

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
i have before, but sure as hell don't plan on doing it again

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
indeed

8) Do you want children?
yes

9) How many?
3

10) Would you consider adoption?
i highly doubt it

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
no cool way about it

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
never have, never will

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
no, i'm as serious as it gets

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
to a degree

15) Are you romantic?
when the time is right

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
yes and no. depends on what type of 'change.'

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
a nice simplistic church in bris with the reception on a river cruise

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
go read profile and you will find the answer

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
uh-huh

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
yes

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
mission accomplished

22)What would you say about your last ex?
a bloody idiot

Post 23 by hypatia (Much Scarier in Person) on Friday, 07-Sep-2007 18:05:55

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
single

2) Are you happy with who you are?
yes

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I fall fast but it's often not the right person

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
yes - it's held together with duct tape

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
cheating is such a weird term - it's not a game, but there are circumstances where people have reasons to both stay together and go outside

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
depends on the situation

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes

8) Do you want children?
have one, want more

9) How many?
between 3 and 10

10) Would you consider adoption?
not just consider, am doing it

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
tell me


12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
no. I don't play games in any situation.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
yes. and first sound, and first taste and ...

15) Are you romantic?
sometimes

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Yosemite

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes - one of those wrong people

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
yes - big time covet of a married woman

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
if only I had a sig other to fight over

22)What would you say about your last ex?
A good woman who needs to be with someone else.

Post 24 by Eleni21 (I have proven to myself and the world that I need mental help) on Monday, 03-Dec-2007 12:51:47

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Taken and very happy.
2) Are you happy with who you are?
Definitely, though there's always room for improvement.
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I can, though with my boyfriend, I was a little unsure at first. I'd loved one other man before who didn't love me, but neither of us lied to each other and we're still friends.
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes, once.
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
The only circumstances where I think it would be ok is if all parties knew about it. So say the one partner was in an accident and couldn't have sex and the other wanted to, or one just didn't want sex and the other one did, or both were old and one found a younger person to be with purely sexually... something like that. But again, there could be no secrets.
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Only if he told me about it before hand or immediately afterword. If not, there's the door!
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
No, not for me, though my boyfriend was married at one point in his life and has two grown children.
8) Do you want children?
Maybe, but right now is not the time. I'd rather be older, have a steady income and a way to get to Greece, at least for the child's birth so he/she could be a citizen.
9) How many?
One or two, no more.
10) Would you consider adoption?
Absolutely!
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
lol I think my bf hits the nail on the head. He calls me at least once a day to see how I'm doing... We always say I love you. But if I was single, I'd say just tell me and get it out and see where it goes.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
My other partners were really friends with benefits, so there was no hard to get. I made the first move on my boyfriend.
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
My boyfriend was the only one I've really dated. The others, as I've said, were fwbs and they knew it. However, I always always played it safe.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Absolutely, or at first voice! lol
15) Are you romantic?
I never used to think so. I'd say save the mushy stuff. But now I'm finding that I'm alot more romantic than I previously thought. Still, don't send flowers (cause they'll die and I'll get annoyed... send a plant) and never put your coat down for me... Don't open doors for me either. Well, I let my man get away with that just cause I love him.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
At my boyfriend's age, it's a little hard to try to change him, and I usually don't agree with that anyway. But I suppose in little ways, yes. His friends have told him that he's alot happier now than he used to be and that makes me feel good.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
Greece, but not sure exactly where. Definitely not in a church though, since I'm not Christian or monotheist.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
I sure hope so or my boyfriend and I would both be hurt! lol Seriously, I love him so much, he's my everything. My friends and my mother (with whom I'm very close) all see the love that we have for one another.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes, my last fwb. I really wanted him to be more than that, but he had no feelings for me other than friendship, and the sex was so rare that we wound up really just being friends after all. In retrospect, I found someone much better, who loves me wholeheartedly.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Maybe Mom's, since she was disappointed for me that I chose such an older man, but she sees now that we really do care for each other.
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
It really depends. I'd be extremely hurt if he chose someone else, but I'd have to respect him. But if someone wouldn't leave him alone, or was saying stuff to or about him or wanted to hurt him, forget it. I'd go on the war path and Gods help her!
22)What would you say about your last ex?
I really didn't have a boyfriend before this one, but the guy I liked... it just never would've worked out with us. He was too old school for me.

Post 25 by Morgan_Lynn (Account disabled) on Saturday, 22-Dec-2007 4:01:10

Hmm... i think ill give this a shot...

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
I'm happily taken!

2) Are you happy with who you are?
Oh totaly!!

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
It depends on the person.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes,, oh so menny times. I'm hoping this time will be diffrent.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No, never! if a guy cheets on you, kick them im the balls, put them in a hospatal, and dumpp then right away!
and guys, if a girl cheets on you, dump them right away! cheeting is never ok!
I have been cheeted on, and it hert like hell!

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
NO! I would say,
"You had your chanse, and you blue it! sorry sucka!"

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes.

8) Do you want children?
Yes. I love kids. but i want to start my kurerer first, befor a family.

9) How many?
2 or 3.

10) Would you consider adoption?
oh most defenently!

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Just tell me, dont be afriad of what i'll say. just let me no!

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Sometimes.:)

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
NO! i only date people i am seriously serious about! I dont do that play around BS!

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Yezz.

15) Are you romantic?
Sometimes, it all depends on my mood.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
NOpe!!! never change someone, if you cant except them for who they are, then they dont deserve you!

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
If ever, I would love to get maried in a beutiful garden, with lots of flours, and yeah..

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes! very much so!

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yeah, about 2 months ago, and befor that, about a year ago. I'm glad to say, that neither of thoghs men mean a thing to me anymore!

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Only once. and for that, I'm sorry Marky!

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
OH YES, if someone came after my man, the girl would seriously be hert!

22)What would you say about your last ex?
Nothing,
Because he's on this cite....
heheheheheheheheehhe! smiles!

Post 26 by Thom3of5 (Do the Doo.) on Saturday, 22-Dec-2007 8:49:54

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Taken!

2) Are you happy with who you are?
For the most part

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Usually I do
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
ya, It really sucks
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No. To me cheating happens when the people in the relationship can't talk about their desires with each other. I believe an open relationship is not cheating.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Yes. As long as it's not a cycle. Try to find out why they cheated. Was it for the sex, or are they looking for the next relationship

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes.

8) Do you want children?
Yes.
9) How many?
Just one or two. I dream of a daughter from time to time
10) Would you consider adoption?
Sure, to accept a child that isn't yours shows a huge amount of love
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Who would do that? grin. Just say it.
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No Games

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Ya
15) Are you romantic?
Usually
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, If you can't accept them for who they are, then you don't need to be with them
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
My wife deserves a fairytale wedding. Horse drawn carriage, long, beautiful train, flowers everywhere. But that's only because of the money no object thing.
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Oh, ya, who hasn't.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
I'm afraid so. It really sucks
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Not fight over. I'd Fight for them though.
22)What would you say about your last ex?
ex lover or ex relationship?

Post 27 by TheAsianInvasion (The Zone's invader) on Sunday, 23-Dec-2007 0:02:08

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single

2) Are you happy with who you are?
I'm happy with the way I am. so many people tell me not to change, and I agree. hahahaha

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Yeah, only once, last year

4)have you ever had your had your heart broken?
Yes, 4 times

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
no, if both partners are in a relationship, I strongly advice both to stay with one another. cheeting leads to problems whitch leads to breaking up...not good

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Nope, trusting someone is no joke, so, i would say no.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
no

8)
someday

9) How many?
3

10) Would you consider adoption?
It depends.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Just come out of shyness and tell me.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
hmm... sometimes

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
no, if I'm with someone, I stick to that person

14
) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
first site? first hear. hahaha, um, can't say mutch about it. usually takes a couple of times for me
15) Are you romantic?
yes/no. it really depends on how the relationship goes
16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, if I loved someone, why would I change her
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
On a butifull beatch

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
yes

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
yeah

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Um...I think so, although she didn't show mutch, but I got the feeling I did

21)
Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
if he tried to get with my Girl, I would kindly ask him to stop. if he doesn't, well,...

22)What would you say about your last ex?
Not a very good experience, but hell, what do I know

Post 28 by HotPerro (I live and breathe the board) on Sunday, 23-Dec-2007 4:09:20

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
taken

2) Are you happy with who you are?
For sure, I’m the best me there is

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I seem to have a pulley that bounces me back up if I fall too fast, ruining the feeling, so no

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Fortunately, yes, good lessons

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
As a reformed cheater, no

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I’m too proud

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
not seriously, I tend to have a bad view of marriage

8) Do you want children?
Noooooo, at least not within the next few years

9) How many?
-38

10) Would you consider adoption?
If I had children, I think I’d like them homemade

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Feed me! Jk, um… go for it I guess

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
When in Rome…

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
It runs in the family, I’d like to say I’m beginning a pioneer journey

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
No, but I believe in lust at first smell

15) Are you romantic?
Spontaneously, in my own way

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
I can honestly say I accept people for who they are, and besides, I’m too lazy

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
An extremely informal wedding somewhere here in San Diego

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
I’m very fond of my girlfriend

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
No, I don’t wish, lol

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, a few, and it’s worse for me than having my own broken

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
For her safety, but not her feelings

22)What would you say about your last ex?
We love each other more as friends now than we ever did while together, I’m glad we made it thru our hard times, and our now best friends

Post 29 by Shadow_Cat (I've now got the silver prolific poster award! wahoo!) on Sunday, 23-Dec-2007 17:46:49

1. Single, Taken, or Crushing?
Taken.

2. Are you happy with who you are?
More so now than I used to be, that's for sure.

3. When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Yes, and there are pros and cons to that.

4. Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes. Not often, but the two times it did happen, it was severe.

5. Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Absolutely not.

6. Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I'm not sure I could. I tried to once, but it didn't work. I just couldn't forgive and/or trust again.

7. Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, I have. It's scary to talk about again, but it's stil a dream of mine.

8. Do you want children?
I used to say definitely not. Lately I've been thinking I do. Hello, biological clock!

9. How many?
Two would be ideal, a son and a daughter.

10. Would you consider adoption?
Yes. There are so many little ones in this world who are waiting for good homes.

11. If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Just be straight up and tell me.

12. Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No, and I don't respect it when people do. Hearts aren't toys to be played with.

13. Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No. I don't enter relationships lightly.

14. Do you believe love at first sight exists?
no. People can fall pretty fast. But at first sight? You don't know enough about the person.

15. Are you romantic?
Sometimes. Affectionate, yes, but I'm not sure about romantic. LOL.

16. Do you believe that you can change someone?
No. relationships naturally change people a little bit. But I like or love someone for who they are, not who I can make them to be. Otherwise, what attracted me to them in the first place?

17. If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
I don't so much care about the where, but who is there with me.

18. Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, I'm very much in love with my boyfriend.

19. Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes.

20. Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, and it's a terrible feeling.

21. Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
If that's what it came to, absolutely.

22. What would you say about your last ex?
He's a kind and caring man. We were just very destructive to each other. I hope he can find happiness someday.

Post 30 by Marissapc2010 (Zone BBS is my Life) on Sunday, 23-Dec-2007 23:31:07

1. Single, Taken, or Crushing?
taken
2. Are you happy with who you are?
Sometimes, but what does that really have to do with this topic?
3. When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
Unfortunetly
4. Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yeah
5. Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No fucking way.
6. Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I wish I could say a deffenet no. But if I'm in love, I'm weak, and they might be able to convince me to. but it would be a retarded thing to do
7. Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Jokingly only.
8. Do you want children?
No no no.
9. How many?

10. Would you consider adoption?

11. If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be sweet, talk to me first, let me no your serious in being friends at first, don't just tell me the day you meet me.
12. Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
Sometimes. I suppose so.
13. Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
I used to, loads, but I had it done to me, no fun. I learned my lesson.
14. Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Lust at first sight.
15. Are you romantic?
Can be.
16. Do you believe that you can change someone?
No, learned that lesson, to, don't try, if your not happy with that person, don't be with them, trying to change someone hurts you, them, everything.
17. If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
ON a beach somewhere.
18. Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yeah.
19. Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Oh god, yes, one of the hardest times of my life.
20. Have you ever broken a heart?
Unfortunetly.
21. Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
I shouldn't have to. If he has doubts, then I don't need to be with them, If they have no doubts, but someone likes them, then they're no thret to me
22. What would you say about your last ex?
Uh, he was odd. Very unattached. Luckally we didn't waste our time to long.

Post 31 by SensuallyNaturallyLiving4Today (LivingLifeAndLovingItToo) on Wednesday, 26-Dec-2007 16:16:34

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing?
Happily Taken.

2) Are you happy with who you are?
For the most part: we can all find ways in which to improve and things about ourselves which we love and hate.

3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I do tend to fall fast as my heart has more sway over me than my mind, although that eventually katches up and sets things right if they are not already right.

4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
Yes and it is unbelievably painful.

5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
Absolutely not, under no circomstances. It is simply unacceptable, no matter what.

6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
Perhaps but it would take time and a huge effort on their part to regain my trust and as I said it is not very likely in the first place.

7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, I have.

8) Do you want children?
Absolutely, I love kids and I feel that I would make a good and nurturing mother.

9) How many?
Between two and five or so. Within reason the more the marrier. Children are our future and I adore them.

10) Would you consider adoption?
I feel very strongly that I would like to have my own biological children although that certainly wouldn't preclude me being a foster parent or adopting a child who needs a loving family.

11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Well, as I am taken there really is no reason for anyone to be letting me know such a thing, but speaking from when I was single: I appreciate honesty and openness, although a measure of flare and creativity in telling me, such as a poem or a song would have earned potential guys in the past many points with me.

12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
No, it is hard enough to find a genuinely interested, honest, intelligent, thoughtful, sweet and honorable guy that you should never pretend less interest than you actually feel just to get them to more actively pursue you, as you could lose them.

13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
No, it is not fare or kind to others, either those whom you are interested in or those who are interested in you and it can burn bridges and make enemies, also acrew much bad karmah.

14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
I believe that lust at first sight exists, but not love. Love is much more complex than that, although I do believe it can develop fast. Just not that fast.

15) Are you romantic?
To a fault. I love romantic gestures and value the romantic soul very highly as a desireable quality in a man.

16) Do you believe that you can change someone?
You can change someone's mind, but not how they think. You can change behaviors, but not who someone truly is. It is fine to try to change someone's mind on a given point or help them to change certain behaviors which are hurting them or you, but trying to change how someone thinks and who they are deep down is not only pointless but it is wrong.

17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
On a sailboat in beautiful caribian waters, on a roller coaster, at a viniard in the south of France, In the water with dolphins off the coast of California, in a big beautiful secluded medow with wild flowers and surrounded by deep forest... that's just the tip of the iceburg, I have so many ideas.

18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Yes, my boyfriend. I love him so much that it can not properly be put into words.

19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Yes, a few times.

20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yes, I have and the one that first springs to mind makes me feel the most guilty. He was a wonderful person and I feel terrible for hurting him. I always will.

21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
Die bitch die. I'd murder them, no, torture then murder them. He's mine and I couldn't imagine life with out him. Anyone who tried to come between us would pay and pay dearly.

22)What would you say about your last ex?
Oh God. I'm not going there. That would spark a several hundred poast long board topic and I really don't have the time or the inclination to deal with such a thing right now.

Post 32 by Emerald-Hourglass (Account disabled) on Wednesday, 26-Dec-2007 17:38:11

1) Single, Taken, or Crushing
Single
2) Are you happy with who you are?
There was a time when i wasn't, but i am now
3) When you meet the right person, do you fall fast?
I do, but then I try to bounce back and thinnk realistically..
4) Have you ever had your heart broken?
yeah. he'll never know that though..
5) Do you believe that there are certain circumstances where cheating is ok?
No
6) Would you ever take someone back if they cheated on you?
I'd say no but i did take him back, he never did it again..i made him feel horible about it the first time lol, but now, I wouldn't
7) Have you talked about marriage with another person?
Yes, i have.
8) Do you want children?
Yeah i do
9) How many?
2
10) Would you consider adoption?
Yeah i would
11) If somebody liked you right now, what do you think is a cool way to let you know?
Be my friend first, then just tell me i guess..
12) Do you enjoy playing hard to get?
LOL yeah, sometimes I like to be chased so i know how interested he is hahaha
13) Be honest, do you play the "game" when you are dating?
Yeah i do, unless I feel something serious can happen between a certain person and myself, or if i really like one person more.
14) Do you believe love at first sight exists?
Lust at first sight you mean? lol, i believe in that.
15) Are you romantic?
Not really, sometimes I guess.
16) Do you believe that you can change someone? I agree with heather on this one.
17) If you could get married anywhere, money not an object, where would it be?
On a yaught somewhere on some tropical island..
18) Do you have feelings for someone right now?
Hmm, not really.
19) Have you ever wished you could've had someone but you couldn't?
Omg yeah and it sucks.
20) Have you ever broken a heart?
Yeah a few times, i feel really bad, but what can you do?
21) Would you ever fight somebody over your significant other?
If some bitch tried to come between us, I'll hurt her lol.
22)What would you say about your last ex? We still talk, we're still good friends. I'll always have a soft spot for him. It just wasn't the time, we still joke about getting married though lol